Making a choice and sticking to it.
I dye my hair, and right now it is a blue-black color. I don't really look goth, but I am pale. I worry about seeming goth, and someone commented on it, and it freaked me out.
For the past two weeks I've contemplated going back to brown, even though I really love my current color. I decided today that I'm not going to cave, and I'm going to continue dying it — life is too short to yield to someone else's opinions.